She and her friends were on their way to a party and her
boyfriend didn’t want her to go. Considering her phone only worked in wifi he
decided to keep in touch with her threw one her friends phone. They left for
the party at around 10:30 p.m. and sense then he still continued to call,
asking her where she was at, and asking her what she was doing. At first he was
sort of calm about everything but then he began to start getting verbally aggressive
when they started to move from party to party. Everyone in the car could hear
him yelling at her and accusing her of trying to do something behind his back
so her friend that was driving just suggested that they meet him somewhere so
he could talk to her and that was around 2:30 a.m. . About ten minutes later he arrived when he
came her roommate started to take her dorm key off of her lanyard so she could
get into their room because she was going to go with him. As her friend was
trying to get the key off he began to get aggressive and started to pull her
out of the car. She told him to calm down and stop and that she was getting her
ID from me but he didn’t, he then started to pull her out by her hair. When he
pulled her out by her hair she hit him in the face then he got even more aggressive
and pushed her head against the car. After that he started to pull her hair
again and she fell and he picked her up by her hair, when that happened one of
her friends had gotten out the car to help. When she got out she started to
tell him to stop and he didn’t then he shoved her in the car when he did that
the driver said she would be ok and that he was just drunk and then they drove off.
Her friends didn’t know what to do or who to call because they didn’t know the
license plate number or even her boyfriend’s name so they decided to stake out
in her dorm room. About an hour later she came into the room crying and her
friends started to ask her what happened the about six minutes later her RA
knocked on her door concerned about what had happened to her, so her friends
told them what had happened , then they called the Resident director to tell
him what was going on . Then they asked to speak with her, which they did but
she didn’t tell them that he had gotten physically abusive with her. Later on the
police came and asked her if he had gotten physical with her and she denied it
and she asked her friends to deny it as well and so they did because they wanted
to respect her wishes. Her reason behind her not telling the truth is because
she didn’t want him to get arrested and that she was done with him and planned on
never talking to him again. The next day at around noon there was a knock on
the door and she looked threw the peep hole and saw her boyfriend’s friend and
she opened the door not knowing her boyfriend was with him .They both came into
her room, at this time her roommate was partially asleep so she was not aware
that her boyfriend was in the room too until he started yelling at her. He
started to ask her why she was acting dumb last night and what she was doing
and started cursing at her, which didn’t make sense because his friend claimed
he was “ drunk “ last night so he didn’t know what he was doing .He then told
her to get up because he wanted to talk to her and she repeatedly said no that
she didn’t want to go with him then he started to pull her off of the bed by
her leg. Once her roommate heard her yelling and saw her getting pulled off the
bed she ran out of the room to get their RA, their RA was actually at church so
she had to find another one in the next hall. Luckily she was there, they began
to walk back to the room and when they had gotten to the room she, her boyfriend,
and his friend were gone. When her roommate and RA realized she was gone the RA
called campus security. Her roommate told security everything she knew about her boyfriend
and what had just happened and then security left to go find her.
That is crazy, no one deserves to go through that. People need to realize what they are worth and always remind themselves to never settle for anything less. That is a very scary situation to be in, and im glad that she is now okay. Hopefully she sees that she has great friends that are there for her, and that she need to find someone better even though its hard to say than do.
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